Since the jury
in the Jodi Arias murder case in Arizona failed to reach a unanimous decision
on Arias’ final date with destiny—a majority saw through her false and
manipulative act during her plea for life speech, but others were unable to get
past her femininity—it appears that unless prosecutor Juan Martinez decides to
drop the death penalty as an option, it will be many more months before the
case is finally put to rest. Of course in the meantime there is the George
Zimmerman trial soon for CNN to “entertain” the masses with. I’ll talk about
that media-poisoned, hypocrisy-laden case again in due time, but I think that
we can look back on the Arias case and make a few observations about the trial
that the media has overlooked. In my mind, there were two important themes
played out in the Arias case that had nothing to do with the media “circus” or
the public’s “fascination” with it: The pursuit of social status, and the
continuing hypocrisy of how society regards the issue the domestic violence.
First the
social implications of the case. Arias is a Latina who seems to have been
forever attempting to ingratiate herself in Anglo society. All of her friends
appear to be non-Hispanic whites, as were all of her various boyfriends. In
order to insinuate herself into this set as an “accepted” member, she dyed her
hair blonde, had breast augmentation, and appears to have had a “nose job” to
make her look more “white.” She even converted to the Mormon faith in this
quest; who knew that doing so gives one a free pass into the wonderful world of
non-stop premarital sex.
All this in
itself isn’t particularly “surprising,” given the way society is structured; it
is perfectly understandable that someone would attempt to improve their social
standing by, say, marrying a white man. Of course, that doesn’t change who they
are, and their children would likely inherit their less “desirable” physical
characteristics, and thus face the same social “issues.” The problem here is
that many women like Arias need something to “sell” themselves to their
would-be Anglo "benefactors," and that apparently is often the
promise of easy sex. And let’s not quibble about details here; right up to the
day of the murder, Arias did everything she could to portray herself as a sex addict
in the mind of Travis Alexander. How could he possibly refuse her?
In the 1940s
and 50s, films often portrayed dark-haired Latinas as “spitfires” and sex
objects who tempted temporarily
weak-willed white men, who in the end would see “sense” and reject them in favor the “pure-hearted” blonde white woman. I
would not doubt that there is at least the suspicion that this dynamic is still
in play in the minds of some—like Arias and her would-be mate, the deceased Alexander. That Arias tried to change her
appearance to resemble an Anglo white female would suggest that she felt
threatened by the potential of Alexander preferring the “real” thing. If
reports are true that Alexander was soon leaving on his Cancun business trip in
the company of another female “friend,” the failure of Arias’ efforts to
recreate herself in what she presumed would be sufficient enticement to “keep”
Alexander must have been an extreme shock to her ambitions, not to mention her
ego.
I must confess
that I feel very little but contempt for people who choose to degrade
themselves by buying false status, especially through the use of sex. It
has been easier for me than most in my situation to see the futility of
pursuing the unattainable, and move on with life; since I don’t go out of my
way to mingle with the masses it doesn’t matter so much to me what people
think. Maybe I’m not as “ambitious” or as greedy as some. I don’t look at
myself in the mirror every day and wish I looked like something else. I can’t
change my physical reality.
That being
said, what some people can’t seem to get through their thick skulls (or
preconceived notions) is that other than those possessed by demons, human
beings regardless of race or ethnicity go through life motivated by the same
things, and have the same basic wants and desires; “differences” are generally
a matter of degree. Abraham Lincoln, whatever his true attitudes on race, drew
the line in accepting popular prejudices of the time in stating that in the
right to earn a living, the black man was his or any other white man’s equal.
This seems perfectly reasonable, unless of course it means stepping on some
"privileged" toes. Republicans prefer that other groups
simply “assimilate” into their "culture," meaning that the
“assimilated” group must subordinate itself, be submissive and take what they
are given; it also means that to be fully “accepted,” they must “accept” and
disseminate (see Michelle Malkin) the uglier stereotypes and prejudices of
their own or other national scapegoats.
Nevertheless, I
can locate elements of self-worth, if I look hard enough, that does not require
confirmation from the majority group. I might not have any money or have
adequate housing, but my large collection of classic films—I recently added
Criterion’s Josef von Sternberg silent film collection (I particularly like The Docks of New York)—tells me that I
am probably more culturally in tuned than, say, bigots like Pat Buchanan and
Lynn Cheney. Fortunately, the Internet
has provided me a forum for which to tell you all that; otherwise, I’d merely
be wallowing in Stone Age ignorance—or such would be the opinion of most people
I encounter on the street.
I’m not like
Jodi Arias and others like her. I'm a social and political
"soldier"--not a strumpet. I never let questions of “status” bother
me overmuch, because that is determined by ignorant, bigoted people who were
simply unworthy of my time or patience. Arias was clearly more desperate and
single-minded in her efforts to achieve purchased status. She had no money or
job-defined social position; she was referred to as a “photographer” by some in
the media, but this was just a ploy to puff her up as something more than a
pathetic strumpet. She wasn’t alone in this, of course. Lorena Bobbitt
confessed that she came to America to pursue her “dream”—to snag a white Anglo
husband; to John Bobbitt, of course, she was a trouble-free sex receptacle, at
least for a while. Many black professional athletes see a white wife as
emblematic of their new social status. Of course, when their careers are over
and the money runs out, questions of social “status” tend to shift.
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The second
theme of the trial was domestic violence. Arias claimed—after first denying
that she even knew of the crime—that her actions were the last resort of a
relationship in which she was the victim of repeated violence. Indeed, the
savage violence of the murder would make “sense” if she was the victim of a
sustained pattern of domestic violence. She also complained that she was abused
as a child. You can find plenty of people on the Internet who believed her
claim and seemed blithely unfazed by the brutality of the crime, and Arias'
lies and fabrications from the very beginning. Even seemingly trivial matters
were the subject of confident lying, and Arias' contempt for the intelligence
of the jury doubtless went far to insure her conviction; the episode concerning
the alleged purchase and return of the third gasoline, when Martinez proved
that she actually used it for the purchase of gasoline, demonstrated that no
detail was beyond Arias' deceptiveness. Why should she be believed about her
claims of domestic violence? Consider the following:
Arias’ demeanor
during her trial was for the most part egotistical, self-confident, unemotional
and calculating. She never acted like she was a “victim” of anything save a
bruised ego. Except during her testimony when she was caught in yet another
falsehood, her behavior suggested that she was not only unharmed emotionally by
the alleged abuse, but her attitude about the killing seemed to be
matter-of-fact, something that everyone would do in her place—if they also had,
as a prosecution expert testified, a “borderline personality disorder.”
Arias and
Alexander were only a “couple” for less than five months, from February to June
2007. The murder occurred almost a year later.
Arias
repeatedly attempted to entice Alexander with sex, even after they
broke-up.
Alexander’s
text messages and other communications with Arias in regard to their
relationship suggested that she was insufferably paranoid about the state of
their relationship and his feelings toward her.
Communications
between the two after their break-up indicate that Arias continued to try to
get back together with Alexander. When these efforts failed, she was accused of
stalking him, hacking into his Facebook account, and slashing the tires of his
car.
Arias never told anyone about
domestic violence at the hands of Alexander until after her arrest.
During her plea
for her life, Arias used photographs of happy scenes with her family—which
would contradict her claim that she was abused as a child.
The prosecution
proved that Arias’ version of the killing had almost no relation with the
physical evidence or the time line indicated by photographs from the camera
Arias used before, during and after the murder.
More
importantly, Arias told a seemingly endless parade of deceptions and
fabrications with remarkable ease, and yet was so certain that people would
believe her that she confidently predicted before the trial that “no jury would
convict me,” and after the verdict that she felt “betrayed” by the jury.
What does all
this tell us? For one thing, if Arias really was the victim of domestic
violence, why would she repeatedly attempt to reestablish her relationship with
Alexander? Does this not indicate an aberrant obsession? This was the biggest
hole in her defense argument. She had already found a new Anglo boyfriend in
the interim—and yet she contacted Alexander with yet another enticement for
sex. Was it an obsession that she was unable to control that drove her to give
him one more “chance”—and having failed to persuade him, acted on “Plan B” in revenge for rejecting her, despite
offering her body to him yet again?
One observer
who is a forensic psychiatrist, Sheila Wendler, thought that Arias’ behavior
was suggestive of “unstable interpersonal relationships and intense fear of
abandonment or rejection by their partner. They may react in extreme ways to
avoid abandonment, including becoming suicidal, self-mutilate or react with
intense anger, which they may have difficulty to control. These women can
become cruelly punitive toward whom they perceive as rejecting them."
If Arias’ claim
that she acted out of “self-defense” after repeated physical abuse rings false,
one thing that we can also reject is the myth of the “passive” female victim,
and the suggestion that physical differences between the sexes really matters
in how the public and law enforcement should regard domestic violence. Physical
strength can be neutralized by factors such as a male’s passive personality,
taking advantage of circumstances of weakness, or employing superior force. It
was clear that this murder was perpetrated when Alexander was in a vulnerable
position in his tiny shower cubicle; Arias had persuaded him to squeeze himself
in a sitting position by claiming that she wanted a photograph of him like this
for her portfolio. Alexander never suspected what Arias was about to do to him,
and he had no means to defend himself but with his hands.
The defense
tried to claim that Arias shot him first, but the wounds on Alexander’s hands
and the fact that the blood trail led into his bedroom indicated that he was
still alive at least in the first minute of the attack. Alexander apparently
died in the hallway outside the bathroom, where Arias apparently slit his
throat after knifing him almost thirty times and then shooting him in the head;
a demonstration on ABC News showed that a female the same build as Arias could
easily drag someone the size of Alexander back into the shower cubicle where he
was subsequently found.
Defense “expert” on domestic violence, Alyce LaViolette, also did Arias no favors; her testimony had all the
credibility of a biased advocate. Under cross examination, LaViolette—who was repeatedly
admonished by the judge for giving evasive or non-responsive answers—was forced
to admit that despite Arias' many false statements and fabrications, and the
lack of any corroborating evidence or testimony that Arias was the victim of
domestic violence by the hand of Alexander, she chose to believe Arias’ latest
story without the slightest reservation. On the other hand, LaViolette chose to
dismiss out-of-hand Alexander’s statement that he was being stalked by Arias
and was fearful of her—as it turned out, with some justification. LaViolette’s
house of toothpicks was subsequently demolished seemingly within minutes by
prosecution witness Janeen DeMarte, whose clinical, objective appraisal of
Arias was that her past and present behavior exhibited none of the variables
associated with victims of domestic abuse, but that of extreme jealousy.
What then are
we to make of this case? Of course, the media has made the case out to be
whether Arias’ claim to be abused both physically and personally (i.e. feelings
of being a “prostitute,” a circumstance which she alone is to blame) was to be
believed to justify that savageness of the crime. But for me, this case is
about the desperate lengths a person of a “lower” social status tries to enter
the world of a “higher” status, and how it causes those persons to degrade
themselves even as they believe they are “improving” their social “status.”
This case also demonstrated the limits of using “domestic violence” as defense
for murder; without any actual evidence that it occurred, using it as a defense
to explain an act of a seeming psychopath seems particularly cynical and
opportunistic. More importantly—and unfortunately no doubt going over the heads
of just about everyone—this case should demonstrate that women are just as
capable of domestic violence, and sometimes of a kind that even the most
violent of men would shrink from committing on their intimate partner.